Let’s get real, we all find ourselves in a toxic loop of comparing ourselves, our bodies, our homes, our jobs, our families, our kids, our friends, our pets…you name it we compare it. It is easy to make comparisons especially with everyone sharing on social media platforms more than ever, hell I find myself doing it a lot but what good does it do?

It certainly does not help us to embrace our own unique characteristics and it certainly does not encourage us to be ourselves.


As a matter of fact, it has the complete opposite effect; it creates longing for something we think we do not or cannot have in our own lives and it can cause us to lose sight of ourselves.

Well I am here to remind you (myself included) that all creatures on our lovely planet are unique, no one is made exactly the same. It is that uniqueness that makes life fun and interesting! If we were all the same life would get boring quick.

Let us celebrate our differences rather than making comparisons, let us embrace our uniqueness!


Next time you find yourself making comparisons, take a moment away from whatever is fueling those thoughts and write down 3 things you are grateful for in your life and list 1-3 reasons why you are grateful for those things/people/personal attributes, etc.


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With Light & Love,